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All mammals slow or stop labor when viewed. In the western human world, giving birth in a hospital has become a public affair that usually takes place in a public space under the supervision of public figures. It's become completely normal to give birth with all kinds of strangers around you: Doctors, interns, midwives and midwives-in-training all take turns to take a look. But we are also continuously monitored by technology (monitoring the fetus, frequent internal examinations, etc.). Not infrequently, the contractions suddenly stop when women are transferred to the hospital at the beginning or halfway through their labor.
Giving birth in a public space is just as strange as conceiving a child in a public space.
In addition, women who feel watched will produce less oxytocin (this hormone is important in uterine contraction and subsequently in mother-child bonding), even the way a mother looks at herself ('Am I doing it right?' ), will decrease the release of oxytocin.
Orgasmic Birth
Choosing a hospital or home birth depends on where you feel safest. You relax better where you feel good, making the process smoother. The feeling of safety in the woman in labor is paramount. That is why it is important that parents-to-be are well informed and aware of the possibilities in counseling and of the influences that play a role during childbirth. An independent midwife or doula can guide you through this.
The production of the hormones endorphin and oxytocin, also called the love hormones, play a crucial role during the birth process. When oxytocin levels rise, endorphin levels will also rise, the hormone that reduces the feeling of pain. This has a pain-relieving effect and will also ensure strong contractions that advance the birthing process. The production of oxytocin increases when the woman feels safe, calm and supported by people who trust her and the birthing process in a pleasant and peaceful environment.
However, when adrenaline dominates, which is the case when the woman is anxious or stressed, labor may be slowed down.
In the documentary Orgamix Birth by Debra Pascali-Bonaro different women are shown who, together with their partners, interweave the lovemaking in the giving birth process. The shared sensuality and sexual excitement in a relaxed atmosphere ensure a high production of oxytocin, the female nervous system is numbed to such an extent that the pain threshold is significantly increased. It is not about experiencing an orgasm per se, although this is possible and experienced as very deeply, but about the intimacy they experience as a couple. This is the scientific solution for those who like to understand the picture rationally. But see for yourself, imagine a woman who gives birth bathed in pleasure, love and pleasure. Affectionately, just as they conceived their child, they welcome it into the world…